From intra-psychic to interpersonal
Circularities
Linear explanations - invariant personality traits. Some traits are more associated to one gender than the other ex: women are more demanding. Cycles are shaped by dominant cultural gender roles.
Linear causality - a linear explanation of problems translates to: a influences b, but b doesn’t influence a. A is what causes b. Problems are caused by individual through beliefs, biology, emotions and solutions are then created by individuals changing their beliefs etc or their response to the factors created.
Circular causality - a influences b, b also influences a - the cycle is ongoing.
Triads, triangulations and conflict detouring
Ex: escalating conflict (open system) in a pair might be toned down by the involvement of a 3rd person. This dynamic could therefore preserve stability (closed system).
Meta-communication
2 levels of comm - surface level (content level) and at meta-communication level (qualifying level)
Rules, patterns and process
Open system - allows continuous flow of info to and from the outside world
Closed system - rigid boundaries that are not easily crossed
- both patterns are needed for successful functioning