5 stages of grief
DABDA
Denial
Anger
Bargaining
Depression
Acceptance
when the get the significant other to do things or make decisions for them
- abuser is dependent
Dependency
when the significant other derive self-esteem for doing things or making decisions for the abuser
Co-dependency
is when the abuser gets the significant other to do things or make decisions
that are not in the best interests of the significant other
o The nature of the act is dangerous and harmful to the significant other
Manipulation