Chapter 7

Question 1

Are or range of personal distinctness characterized by specific qualities

Answer 1

Domain

Question 2

Part of the consciousness that involves feeling and the capacity to detect and respond to sensory stimuli

Answer 2

Emotions

Question 3

Capacity of our lives that enables us to correctly experience and use feelings and sensibility

Answer 3

Emotional strength

Question 4

Total surrounding of things, conditions, or influences

Answer 4

Environment

Question 5

Non rational, internal sensation not connected with sight, hearing, taste, smell or what is classically correlated to touch

Answer 5

Feeling

Question 6

Responsiveness or susceptibility to sensory stimuli

Answer 6

Sensibility

Question 7

Qualities or features that bring power, force, vigor of sustenance

Answer 7

Strength

Question 8

Psychologist at the university of New Hampshire 1993

Answer 8

John Mayer

Question 9

Psychologist at Yale university 1993 and dean of Yale college

Answer 9

Peter Salovey

Question 10

John Mayer and Peter Salovey proposed the concept of ?

Answer 10

Emotional intelligence

Question 11

Who was another psychologist that joined and systemized the study of emotional intelligence ? and what did he develop as a tool for measuring it?

Answer 11

David Caruso and MSCEIT (2002)

Question 12

Who was A journalist specializing in the area of the brain and psychology
And wrote Emotional Intelligence (best seller)

Answer 12

Daniel Goleman

Question 13

Who is the founder of Humanistic Manifesto

Answer 13

John Dewy

Question 14

Who was a psychologist at the University of Pennsylvania

o The loss of modernism

Answer 14

Martin Seligman

Question 15

How to become a bully (three habits)

Answer 15

1. Try to change the subject too abruptly or too soon
2. Try to change the subject to support their own opinions
3. Simply disagree with others right away

Question 16

How do the three habits in how to become a bully result in others rejecting them ?

Answer 16

By either non-invites to events or non-inclusion

Question 17

Negative attributes in social interaction

Answer 17

1. Don’t seem to know how or when to end a conversation or phone call and keep on talking
2. Oblivious to all cues and hints to say good-bye
3. Conversation centers on themselves all the time
4. Isn’t interested in what others have to say
5. Ignore tentative attempts to refocus upon another
6. Intrude and ask “nosy” questions
7. Stands too close while talking
8. Spreads their belongings into other people’s space
9. Interpreting or using body language poorly
10. Misinterpreting or misusing facial expressions (like not making eye contact)
11. Poor sense of emotional speech (talking to shrilly or flatly)

Question 18

Positive attributes in social interaction

Answer 18

1. Speak directly to others when spoken to
2. Initiate social contact
3. Don’t wait for others to initiate social contact
4. Carry on a conversation
5. Don’t fall back on yes or no/one-word answers
6. Express gratitude towards others
7. Let another person walk before yourself when passing through a door
8. Wait until one person is served something, before serving oneself
9. Thank others
10. Say please
11. To share

Question 19

Emotionally unhealthy addictions

Answer 19

1. Depressed- Narcotics (cocaine)
2. Anxiety (worry and fear)- Alcohol
3. Anger- Opiates (marijuana)/ Pain medications

Question 20

4 skills or strengths for emotional intelligence

Answer 20

1. Identify and express emotions
2. Use or generate emotions
3. Understand emotions
4. Manage emotions

Question 21

Recognize the 3 most inept parenting styles

Answer 21

1. Ignoring feelings all together
2. Being too laissez far
3. Showing no respect for a child’s feelings

Question 22

Emotional schooling (starting with family members)

Answer 22

1. Learn how to feel about yourself
2. How others react to your feelings
3. How to think about your feelings
4. Choices we have in reacting
5. How to read and express, hopes and fears

Question 23

All people face this moment of peril- the one being _____\_____; _____\___by the group. It starts as a young child in ______, _____, ______, etc. the difference is that a bully is rejected more often- because of these three habits on how to become a bully.

Answer 23

Accepted/ rejected
Invited/uninvited
Group play, outings, lunch tables

Question 24

Who write the closing of the American mind in 1997

Answer 24

Allan bloom

Question 25

"Delight yourself in the Lord and He will grant the desires of your heart"

Answer 25

Psalms 37:6

Question 26

"Renew your mind.... Test God's good perfect a and pleasing will"

Answer 26

Romans 12:1-3

Question 27

I don't know

Answer 27

1. They Won’t Let Anyone Limit Their Joy 2. They Won’t Forget 3. They Won’t Die in the Fight 4. They Won’t Prioritize Perfection 5. They Won’t Live in the Past 6. They Won’t Dwell on Problems 7. They Won’t Hang Around Negative People 8. They Won’t Hold Grudges 9. They Won’t Say Yes Unless They Really Want To

Question 28

Biblical literacy came in what years

Answer 28

1400s-1950s

Question 29

Humanistic literacy came in what year

Answer 29

1950s till today

Question 30

What does literacy mean

Answer 30

reading, writing, understanding, expressing

Question 31

What are the 2 greek culture humanistic philosophies

Answer 31

Epicurean and stoic

Question 32

“test your own actions, take pride in yourself” and who is the example I'm this story

Answer 32

Galatians 6:3-5 | Goliath

Question 33

“Jesus knew in his spirit that this was what they were thinking in their hearts” who are the examples in this story

Answer 33

Mark 2:8 | King artaxerxes and Nehemiah

Question 34

skill sets emotional intelligent people have

Answer 34

1. motivate themselves 2. persist in the face of frustration 3. control impulse 4. delayed gratification 5. regulate ones mood 6. keeping distress from swamping your ability to think 7. empathise 8. hope

Question 35

What does Internal locus of control mean

Answer 35

belief that life and behavior is ruled by your own personal choices, decisions, and actions

Question 36

What does External locus of control mean

Answer 36

belief that others will determine your circumstances

Question 37

How you respond to authority show emotion belief is

Answer 37

- what we want vs authority | - emotional response allows you to understand and manage

Question 38

The right mood is defined by ?

Answer 38

What you have faith in

Question 39

Allan bloom wrote the closing of the American mind because

Answer 39

he could not teach his students because they were too concerned with outward appearance to develop the soul

Question 40

The inability to think results in a lack of

Answer 40

Leadership