What are the 3 ‘Brain Roommates’ and what is each one’s role?
What is the correct sequence for engaging the 3 Brain Roommates?
GRAB the Robot – INCITE the Monkey – ARM the Sage. You must pass the survival filter first, then engage emotions, then provide logical ammunition. Never reverse this order.
What does the Robot Brain do with incoming information? What are its 3 categories?
It acts as a spam filter with 3 brutal categories: (1) Boring = DELETE, (2) Dangerous = Fight/Flight, (3) Complicated = IGNORE. If you don’t signal relevance in the first 30 seconds, you’re filed under ‘boring.’
Why is the Sage Brain NOT the decision maker, even though most people think it is?
The Sage is the JUSTIFIER. The Monkey Brain makes decisions emotionally within 500ms to 3 seconds – unconsciously. The Sage comes online afterward and creates a logical narrative to SUPPORT the emotional choice already made.
What is the #1 mistake most presenters make according to the Brain Roommates model?
They lead with logic and data (speaking to the Sage first), hoping it will produce an emotional response. But by then, the Robot has deleted the info and the Monkey has moved on. Emotion must come FIRST.
What is the Emotion-Logic Stack (Riveting Sandwich)?
A 3-layer structure for any presentation or pitch:
Layer 1: EMOTION to Captivate (stories, shocking stats, haunting questions)
Layer 2: LOGIC to Validate (facts, ROI, evidence, data)
Layer 3: EMOTION to Activate (vision of future, emotional close, call to action)
What is the short-form version of the Emotion-Logic Stack?
Captivate – Validate – Activate
In the Emotion-Logic Stack, what is the role of logic?
Logic is ARMOR, not a hook. You’re giving your audience the intellectual weaponry to DEFEND the decision their heart has already made. You’re not convincing them – you’re equipping them.
Name the 5 methods for discovering audience intelligence.
What is the Golden Rule of audience-centered communication?
‘Never let what you want to say get in the way of what the audience needs to hear.’
What is the Master Question of persuasion?
‘You must MEET THEM WHERE THEY ARE to take them where you want them to go.’
What is the key difference between how amateurs and masters approach a presentation?
Amateurs ask: ‘What do I want to say to get the audience to do what I want?’ Masters ask: ‘What do THEY need to hear to get them to do what I want them to do?’ The difference is whose perspective drives the message.
What are the 6 questions in the Pre-Presentation Empathy Audit?
What are the Two Sacred Vulnerability Moments for understanding your real audience?
What are the 3 Vital Connection Centers (the Combination Lock)?
What is the Venn Diagram of Influence and what are its 3 parts?
Circle 1 (Blue): What YOU care about – your passions, expertise
Circle 2 (Yellow): What THEY care about – their fears, dreams, values
Circle 3 (Green): The OVERLAP – where your passions meet their needs. The Green overlap is your ONLY platform of influence. Everything outside it must be cut.
What is the Kitchen Table Test?
Ask: ‘Is what I’m saying relevant to what they discuss at their kitchen tables?’ If not, it’s outside the overlap and should be cut.
What should you do with content that falls outside the Venn Diagram overlap?
Cut it. No matter how much you love it, no matter how important it seems to you. Content outside the green zone is just static in your signal. Stay on message. Do not stray.
What are the 3 types of United Purpose for mobilizing an audience?
What is the Shared Purpose Formula?
Common Enemy + Shared Values + Joint Mission = Unstoppable Alliance
What are the 5 Rules for Fighting Authentically?
What is the difference between fighting against problems, threats, and for goals?
Problems (like Netflix vs. late fees): Liberating people from everyday pain – practical, immediate, personal.
Threats (like Kenneth Cole vs. AIDS): Defending people from existential dangers – emotional, urgent, vital.
Goals (like AmEx & Lady Liberty): Uniting people behind shared aspirations – inspirational, uplifting, transformational.