Exam 2 Notes Flashcards

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The specialized function of organization and direction of a memorial to a personality according to custom and tradition of the community and in compliance with state law

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Contemporary Funeral Service

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What is the purpose of funeral service?

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To serve the living by caring for their dead in some dignified fashion

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The primary purpose of funeral service is

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service to the living

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This will always be secondary to service in the funeral industry

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Merchandising

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The ritual of funeral service is based on what?

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Dignity and tradition associated with some form of organized religion

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Funeral service provides an opportunity for the bereaved to

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Accept the reality of death

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The funeral service meets certain basic needs of whom?

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The community, especially the bereaved

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The contemporary funeral service provides the bereaved with this

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A period of gradual transition

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In the period of gradual transition, what do the bereaved do?

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Gradually bridge the gap from death back to life, to normalcy

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In the future, for the funeral to survive and have meaning to survive and have meaning, what must it become?

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A personalized experience

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To become a personalized experience, the funeral director must find a way to honor the life and person of the deceased which will allow the family to do what?

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To grieve and give significance to a life that has been lost

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The funeral director in the future will be called upon to take on what?

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A more active role

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The contemporary funeral service provides an opportunity for the bereaved to

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Express emotion

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Reasonable expression of grief is

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Healthy

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The therapeutic value of the funeral home experience is that it is a facility where one can

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Let out there emotions

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The grief work process is resolving grief over three stages:

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Normalcy - Death - Normalcy

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17
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The contemporary funeral service provides an opportunity for the bereaved to receive what?

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The comfort and solace of religious or humanistic belief

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For most of society, the funeral is still basically a _______

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Religious experience

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The funeral is becoming less of a religious experience, with the exception being

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African American experience

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The public views the funeral director and clergy as

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Equal Partners in funeral service

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If there is a dispute between the clergy and the funeral director, who must resolve it?

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The PRD

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The successful funeral director will always avoid disputes with the clergy by

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Anticipating potential problem areas and taking action in advance

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Every religion promises this

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Some kind of afterlife

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This is significant because it offers comfort to the bereaved

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The fact that the soul goes on

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For any funeral director to tell a bereaved family that embalmed or placing the body in a gasketed casket or air tight, water tight vault will cause the remains to last indefinitely constitutes
Fraud
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Does a funeral have to be religious?
NO
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The deceased or the family may not have this
A church affiliation
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We must be prepared to provide this for those families not affiliated with any church
Meaningful services and ceremonies
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A direct disposition without a funeral service denies the community their right to
Affirm the worth and dignity of the deceased
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A direct disposition without a funeral service denies the community an opportunity to share this necessary experience
The reality of death
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A direct disposition without a funeral service denies the bereaved the opportunity to do this with the support of the community
Transgress through grief work back to normalcy
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A direct disposition without a funeral service psychologically denies that
Death has even taken place
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Direct disposition without a funeral service is the cheapest, safest, but not the most beneficial alternative when all of these factors are considered
Psychological and Sociological
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Who deserves a funeral?
Everyone
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A funeral allows for the normal expression of emotion through this
Crying
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A funeral provides a freedom and a medium to
Verbalize feelings
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A funeral provides support for this, provided by family and friends
Griefwork
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A funeral helps to emphasize the reality of death and the realization that
Death has occurred
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The funeral ceremony provides spiritual support, but does not necessarily mean this
Church/religious support
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This is always the result of a smooth running and well coordinated funeral
Comfort to the family
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Viewing of the deceased helps to establish
the reality of death
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What are the psychological characteristics of grief?
``` Shock Anger Change of attitude Remorse Self Pity Irrational thinking Fear of the future Envy of others who are not suffering Anxiety Guilt feelings ```
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What are today's perceptions of the funeral?
Plastic, barbaric | Expensive
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Sophisticated people feel that they are above the need for
A public expression of grief
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The funeral is a vital tool in this process
Grief
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Funeral directors must move from professional arranger to
a friend
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A good funeral director by his/her presence lets people know
it's going to be ok
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A funeral director must be comfortable with
tears
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Never adopt this attitude when designing a funeral
keep the family under control
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The family should be be involved in more than this
merchandise
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Participation is a way of showing
Love
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Participation helps face
Reality
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When word fail, what takes over?
Ceremony
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Something which stands for something else
Symbol
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Flowers are symbols of what?
That a person was loved
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Significance must be established so that the loved ones can
move on
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The family's grieving should never be trivialized with paltitudes such as
His suffering is over She is in a better place God will not put on us more than we can bear
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Funeral establishes
personal and social significance