Interpersonal Relationships > Final > Flashcards

Final Flashcards

(94 cards)

Study These Flashcards
1
Q

disappointments (2)

A
  1. momentary feeling of regret with regard to expectations, especially involving people
  2. thoughts of sadness, mild hurts, and/or emotional pain
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
2
Q

cure for disappointments

A

refocusing on God and his plan for your life

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
3
Q

disappointments unchecked can lead to…

A

discouragement

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
4
Q

discouragement (2)

A
  1. temporary times of feeling hopeless or disheartened

2. being deprived of confidence in another, in something, or even one’s self

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
5
Q

cure for discouragement

A

strengthening your faith

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
6
Q

bitterness (3)

A
  1. angry and resentful state of mind directed toward God or man
  2. anger and hostile outlook on life expressed in resentment
  3. sinful response to the emotion of anger
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
7
Q

causes of bitterness (3)

A
  1. result of incorrectly handling anger
  2. result of responding to a different circumstance of life without a biblical perspective
  3. result of resisting God’s design, power, and grace
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
8
Q

consequences of bitterness (4)

A
  1. physical bodies
  2. emotional
  3. mental
  4. spiritual
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
9
Q

physical bodies of bitterness (2)

A

bones and facial features

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
10
Q

emotional consequences of bitterness (2)

A
  1. weakens our souls

2. defiles our souls (Jonah)

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
11
Q

mental consequences of bitterness (4)

A
  1. Cain
  2. Esau
  3. Herod; John the Baptist
  4. Joseph’s Brothers
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
12
Q

spiritual consequences of bitterness (3)

A
  1. inability to love God
  2. doubts regarding relationship with God
  3. can lead to additional sinful behavior
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
13
Q

cure for bitterness (3)

A
  1. confess sin
  2. ask God to gain the surrendered ground of our soul
  3. show mercy by forgiving our offender
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
14
Q

anger is a ___-____ emotion

A

God-given emotion

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
15
Q

definition of anger

A

normal involuntary reaction to displeasing situations or events

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
16
Q

how must anger be controlled

A

by the Holy Spirit

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
17
Q

when is anger uncontrolled

A

when the flesh or the soul seeks to manage this emotion

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
18
Q

God’s anger is always…(4)

A
  1. justified
  2. directed at sin
  3. balanced
  4. show in coming
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
19
Q

when is anger righteous (2)

A
  1. directed by sin

2. controlled by the Holy Spirit

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
20
Q

God’s anger is…(7)

A
  1. controlled, with purpose
  2. not selfish
  3. expression of concern
  4. corrects/curtails behavior
  5. not to break up relationships
  6. at injustices
  7. directed toward disobedience
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
21
Q

Man’s anger is…(7)

A
  1. uncontrolled, w/o patience
  2. selfish
  3. expression of indignation
  4. destroys the individual
  5. usually breaks and/or hinders relationships
  6. at violations at self
  7. directed at those that cross me
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
22
Q

when is anger a sin (3)

A
  1. when emotion of man has greater influence than the Holy Spirit
  2. when the response of anger is an ungodly reaction
  3. when one controlled by anger gives praise to the devil
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
23
Q

anger can come…(6)

A
  1. when we are not dealt with fairly
  2. when we see others treated improperly
  3. when we know the sins of others
  4. from the fear of losing our standing with others
  5. when we feel under pressure, inconvenienced, or interrupted
  6. from others when we expose sin
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
24
Q

what does anger do to a person (8)

A
  1. seeks revenge
  2. bears grudges
  3. accuses falsely
  4. can make us smolder
  5. destroys like a flood
  6. brings sinful actions
  7. destroys friendships
  8. produces bitterness
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
25
what action must I take when feeling anger (4)
1. handle skillfully 2. emotion is to be slow in coming 3. deal with it as you must with all emotions 4. identify the source
26
rules for processing anger responsibly. Agree... (6)
1. that anger is valid 2. to allow the other to be angry 3. that verbal/physical attacks are never appropriate 4. to seek an explanation before passing judgement 5. to seek a resolution 6. to affirm your love for each other
27
depression (3)
1. long-term condition 2. hopelessness, sadness, unhappiness 3. consequence of not strengthening faith
28
cause of depression - body
physical; fatigue, chemical imbalances
29
cause of depression - soul
psychological; mind, wrong-thinking
30
cause of depression - spirit
avenue for temptation
31
characteristics of depression (DEPRESS)
``` Disillusionment Energy loss Pleasures are lost Resigned hopelessness Exclusion Sleep patterns change Sense of Abandonment ```
32
disillusionment
disillusioned with circumstances
33
energy loss (physical)
lethargic, less motivation, lack of sleep or diet
34
pleasures are lost
not happy with pleasures from yesterday
35
resigned hopelessness
nothing is going to change
36
exclusion (isolation)
often push away those that want to help
37
sleep patterns change
insomnia or oversleeping
38
sense of abandonment
just a feeling
39
overcoming depression - physical body (3)
1. take care of your temple 2. does involve rest, diet, exercise 3. enjoy life
40
overcoming depression - soul (3)
1. establish your thoughts (directional and intentional thinking) 2. face depression as a problem 3. invest in Godly influences
41
overcoming depression - spirit
1. being alone with God 2. confess and deal with the sin of depression 3. rejoice in your new life in Christ
42
how to help someone who is depressed (6)
1. stay in their world 2. be careful not to condemn them 3. encourage with hope 4. engage in activity 5. do not become an irritant 6. get them into God's Word and pray with them
43
forgiveness is... (2)
1. at the heart of Jesus Christ | 2. is part of walking with Christ
44
forgiveness is a channel for (4)
1. personal happiness 2. joy 3. contentment 4. peace
45
biblical forgiveness (3)
1. a promise which one person declares that they will not bring up in others offense or hold it against them 2. to untie, release 3. is a costly event and process to forgive
46
two levels of forgiveness
1. God word | 2. Man word
47
why do i need to forgive (4)
1. example of Christ 2. command to forgive 3. because of God's forgiveness 4. is the only way to have a free conscience and to serve and love God
48
who is responsible to forgive
the one who has been offended by another
49
what if some will not forgive me (4)
1. allow Gods forgiveness to be adequate 2. trust him to intervene 3. acknowledge what we've done to another and talk to someone 4. realize that forgiveness takes time
50
Five steps to forgiveness
1. realize forgiveness cannot be done without God's help 2. acknowledge our hurt and pain to God 3. rely upon God 4. cancel debt 5. seek to render good for evil
51
biblical steps in how to offer forgiveness (3)
1. acknowledge the wrong 2. accept the responsibility 3. seek reconciliation
52
how do I know if I have forgiven my offender (3)
1. do not tell others about the offense 2. do not dwell on it 3. do not keep reminding yourself of the offense
53
why do we not forgive? (3)
1. we want to make the person suffer 2. want to make sure there is the fruit of repentance 3. choose to render evil for evil
54
ordained authority includes...(3)
1. government officials 2. church 3. family
55
two relationships of authority
1. ordained | 2. delegated
56
why submit to authority (3)
1. they are ordained of God 2. ministries of God 3. for our conscience sake
57
purpose of an appeal (3)
1. when asked to do something 2. authority is doing or about to do something wrong 3. disagree with an authority
58
prerequisite of an appeal (5)
1. right standing before authority 2. timing 3. right response 4. right attitude 5. right wording
59
procedure of an appeal (5)
1. ask to have your appeal considered 2. reveal the situation 3. recommend a solution 4. wait for the decision 5. accept the decision
60
types of relationships (4)
1. convenience 2. of mutual activities 3. third party 4. milestone
61
developing friendships that last. Purpose...(6)
1. that those that love Christ should love you 2. verbally identify with Christ when asked to compromise or violate convictions 3. to let God choose your friends 4. to learn to identify positive qualities 5. that our relationships with others in order to have a right relationship with them 6. to have healthy relationship
62
how to have a healthy relationship (4)
1. respond positively to challenges 2. clear communication 3. honor commitments 4. learn to express love appropriately
63
friendships that need caution
1. non-believers 2. not walking with God 3. dishonest 4. always tries to outdo you 5. act like a parent or who need a parent
64
five levels of leadership
1. positional 2. permission 3. production 4. people development 5. personal
65
leadership (defined)
someone who has followers
66
natural qualities of leadership (8)
1. self-confident 2. knows man 3. make decisions 4. ambitious 5. originates methods 6. command others 7. motivated by personal considerations 8. independent
67
spiritual qualities of leadership (8)
1. confident in God 2. knows God 3. seeks God 4. self effacing 5. God's methods 6. obeys God 7. motivated by love for God 8. dependent
68
leadership skills can be cultivated and developed (4)
1. using one's spiritual gift 2. as we seek to obey Christ's commands 3. leadership 4. training
69
positional leadership (5)
1. lead because of a title 2. appt. to position gives authority 3. leadership is really "control" 4. leadership is limited to stated position 5. usually produces low morale and has little influence to lead unless leader continues to climb the levels of leadership
70
permission leadership (4)
1. trust and respect are the basis 2. inter-relational skills are essential 3. solid, lasting relationships sustain effective leadership opportunities 4. if overlooked, a leader will always be training new leadership
71
production leadership (4)
1. produces increase from followers 2. leadership is by 'team-work' yet followers understand their root position 3. followers are productive 4. avoid the danger of measuring success by what is produced
72
people development leadership (4)
1. has the ability to empower followers 2. leaders are developing others who will do the work of leading 3. followers who have been personally developed will respond with loyalty 4. growth must be in all areas as the leader
73
personal leadership (3)
1. draws followers because of personal character of the leader 2. leaders are admired and emulated as what others desire to become 3. very difficult to obtain
74
responsibility in positional (3)
1. accept responsibility 2. be a team player 3. excellence
75
responsibility in permission (3)
1. genuine love for people 2. include others 3. work to make others successful
76
responsibility in production (3)
1. initiate personal responsibility 2. communicate what is expected 3. clear goals
77
responsibility in personal development (4)
1. realize people are our greatest asset 2. develop people as a high priority 3. give key roles to key people 4. be a model so others can follow
78
successful development of others (4)
1. value people for who they are 2. commitment to people 3. integrity 4. desire for others to grow to their potential
79
two keys for people development
1. encouragement | 2. correction
80
how to encourage (3)
1. affirmation 2. recognition 3. personal interest
81
goal of correction
personal growth
82
reason for correction
we all make mistakes
83
method of correction
1. confronting 2. education 3. reprimand 4. punishment
84
how to confront (3)
1. resisting assessing blame 2. have all the facts 3. assume innocence
85
how to educate (3)
1. communicate clearly your expectations 2. deal only with what the person can change 3. strive for personal eval
86
how to reprimand (4)
1. clear 2. consistent 3. considerate 4. compassionate
87
goal of punishment
restoration
88
two parts in communication
sending and listening
89
how to send the message (2)
1. control your tongue | 2. speak to build others up
90
controlling your tongue (4)
1. reckless words 2. grumbling/complaining 3. falsehoods 4. gossip
91
speak to build others up (10)
1. choose the right time/place 2. believe the best about the other 3. talk in person whenever possible 4. plan your words 5. use the 'I' word rather than 'you' 6. be objective 7. use the Bible carefully 8. ask for feedback 9. offer solutions/preferences 10. recognize your limits
92
listening involves... (4)
1. sensing 2. attending 3. understanding 4. remembering
93
SOLER of listening
``` Squarely Open Lean Eyes Relax ```
94
improving listening skills (10)
1. find areas of interest 2. judge content 3. hold your fire 4. listen for ideas 5. be flexible 6. work at listening 7. resist distractions 8. exercise your mind 9. keep your mind open 10. capitalize on thought speed
Interpersonal Relationships
flashcards
Decks in class (4)
# Cards
Brainscape helps you reach your goals faster, through stronger study habits.
© 2026 Bold Learning Solutions. Terms and Conditions