DEAR (DEAR MAN)
Describe the situation
Express feelings
Assert what you want
Reinforce your request
MAN (DEAR MAN)
Mindfulness
Appear confident
Neogitate
5 Stages of Change
Precontemplation
Contemplation
Preparation
Action
Maintenance
HARD (communication)
Honest
Appropriate
Respectful
Direct
GIVE (DBT comm)
(be) Gentle
(act) Interested
Validate their POV
(use an) Easy manner
DARN (DARN CAT)
Desire to change
Ability to change
Reasons to change
Need to change
CAT (DARN CAT)
Commitment to change
Activation
Taking steps to change
FAST (DBT)
Fair
Assertive
Stick to your values
Truthful
RULER (emotions)
Recognize (strength + valence)
Understanding (antecedents, vulnerability, maintenance)
Label (name it to tame it)
Express (“I”)
Regulate (use a strategy)
3 therapist behavioral domains of the Shifting Cultural Lens model
3 therapist skills for evincing a multicultural orientation
MECSTAT
Miracle qs
Exception qs
Coping qs
Scaling qs
Time out
Accolades
Tasks
Safety plan sequence (8 steps)
Current suicidality assessment interview (8 bolded items)
10 Cognitive Distortions
Labeling (cognitive distortion)
Instead of just admitting to a mistake, you call yourself a loser
Overgeneralization (cognitive distortion)
You view it as a never ending pattern
All or nothing (cognitive distortion)
Viewing things in absolutes
Mental filter (cognitive distortion)
Dwell on negative, ignore positive
Discounting the positive (cognitive distortion)
Positive qualities don’t count
Jumping to conclusions (cognitive distortion)
Mind reading: assume people react negatively toward you
Fortune telling: predict things will turn out badly
Magnification and minimization (cognitive distortion)
Blow negs out of proportion or shrink pos
Emotional reasoning (cognitive distortion)
I feel like an idiot, so i must be one
Shoulds (cognitive distortion)
Should have, should not have…