Games Flashcards

(35 cards)

1
Q

In games, people sit in groups of ____ and give each other ____ _____

A

20-30, Unvarnished Feedback

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2
Q

Peers present you with evidence that you have acted _______

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Poorly

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3
Q

Relentless exposure to truth is the best path to __&___

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Growth
Happiness

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4
Q

Peers focus on helping individuals learn to “____ _____ _____”

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Take Their Game

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5
Q

Taking your game means learning to listen __

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Nondefensively

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6
Q

Just Listen
Put it in bag and take it home
There you can decide what is ___ and what is _____

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Gold, Garbage

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7
Q

Learn to not only ___
but to _____ in Games!

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Play
Thrive!

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8
Q

Let others say ___________
However they ___________

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Whatever they want
They want to say it

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9
Q

Stop Blaming the world for how you _______

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Feel

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10
Q

Become Responsible for your own____

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Serenity

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11
Q

Learn to Retake Your _____!!

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Pen

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12
Q

Your pen is the power to define your ______

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Path

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13
Q

When you hold your pen, you get to author the _______

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Terms

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14
Q

Your worth is ________

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Intrinsic

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15
Q

Your personal security doesn’t need to come from others ______
It can be based on your ____ in ____

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Opinions
Faith in God

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16
Q

Your sense of security comes from your ____ in ____

17
Q

A shift happens when we look to others for _______
We no longer hold our _____

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Approval, Pen

18
Q

If you live by the _________
You will die by the _________

A

Compliment, Criticism

19
Q

You should do the work to ____ _____
And not lean on the ____ of others

A

Define Yourself
Approval

20
Q

How you experience feedback has more to do with the _____ of your pen
Than the ____ of the message

A

Location, Content

21
Q

The fact that we think the _____
Determines how we ______ is the Problem

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Content, Feel

22
Q

Martin Feared ___ & Craved ___
Now he ….

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Truth Approval

23
Q

Learn to keep ____ at a healthy distance

24
Q

Treat Approval as _____, Not ______

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Information Affirmation

25
Feedback only hurts when we believe it _______ our fundamental psychological needs
Threatens
26
Fundamental Psychological Needs
Safety Worth
27
“ Feedback only hurts when we believe it threatens our ___ ____
Psychological Needs
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29
Today, April 3, I started a new life by creating these __ __
Flash Cards
30
The key to all success is ___ ____
Right Thinking
31
If I want a reset all I need is __ __
10 Cards
32
Safety isn’t synonymous with __ CC’s are by definition ___
Comfort Uncomfortable
32
You will know you have arrived when you eliminate the ____ between the ____ and the ____
Gap Problem Conversation
33
Focus on ____ Get out of the ___!
Gains Gap
34
Document your _____ As they _____
Gains Happen