In games, people sit in groups of ____ and give each other ____ _____
20-30, Unvarnished Feedback
Peers present you with evidence that you have acted _______
Poorly
Relentless exposure to truth is the best path to __&___
Growth
Happiness
Peers focus on helping individuals learn to “____ _____ _____”
Take Their Game
Taking your game means learning to listen __
Nondefensively
Just Listen
Put it in bag and take it home
There you can decide what is ___ and what is _____
Gold, Garbage
Learn to not only ___
but to _____ in Games!
Play
Thrive!
Let others say ___________
However they ___________
Whatever they want
They want to say it
Stop Blaming the world for how you _______
Feel
Become Responsible for your own____
Serenity
Learn to Retake Your _____!!
Pen
Your pen is the power to define your ______
Path
When you hold your pen, you get to author the _______
Terms
Your worth is ________
Intrinsic
Your personal security doesn’t need to come from others ______
It can be based on your ____ in ____
Opinions
Faith in God
Your sense of security comes from your ____ in ____
Faith
God
A shift happens when we look to others for _______
We no longer hold our _____
Approval, Pen
If you live by the _________
You will die by the _________
Compliment, Criticism
You should do the work to ____ _____
And not lean on the ____ of others
Define Yourself
Approval
How you experience feedback has more to do with the _____ of your pen
Than the ____ of the message
Location, Content
The fact that we think the _____
Determines how we ______ is the Problem
Content, Feel
Martin Feared ___ & Craved ___
Now he ….
Truth Approval
Learn to keep ____ at a healthy distance
Approval
Treat Approval as _____, Not ______
Information Affirmation