花に嵐
はなにあらし
Blossoms bring storms
Fatalistic insight about how misfortune looms over that happiest moments
花よりだんご
Sweets over flower
Based on the flower viewing in Japan. Preferring food over flowers means you are more inclined to the practical than the aesthetic/philosophical
芋(の子)を洗うよう
いものこをあらうよう
Like washing (a bucketful of) potatoes
When a place is jam packed (especially beaches)
言わぬが花
Not saying is the flower.
It’s better to not say something, that say something ill spirited you are going to regret.