3 S’s
resilience
the ability to adjust, adapt and recover from a stressor, threat or adversity, from any difficult set of circumstances
stress
state of emotional strain or unease
- normal response to demanding situations or pressured experienced in day-to-day life
- feeling comes from underlying biological mechanisms and hormones that activate “fight-flight-fright”
fight-flight-fright response
involves changes in heart rate, breathing, sweating, and muscle tension
- feel up tight, on edge and easily irritated
- prepares the body to react more effectively to perceived threat or challenge
eustress or “good” stress
help keep you safe
- important for being successful in day-to-day activities and building resilience so you can better cope with challenges
exam stress
can motivate you to spend more time studying
- may feel happier with yourself if you are confident and prepared
financial stress
can motivate you to avoid over-spending so you have enough money to pay for important things
- making good decisions can improve self-esteem, competence and well-being
- protects you from stressful situations like receiving a large credit card bill
- reduces future stress
social stress
motivate you to meet new friends and make new associations
Inverted U theory
illustrates the relation between pressure and performance
- good example of when stress shifts from being helpful to harmful
Inverted U Theory - Low pressure
often results in boredom and weak performance
- as pressure increases, you can see increased attention and interest
Inverted U Theory - Optimal pressure
more pressure or stress can improve performance up to a certain point by preparing us to cope effectively with a challenge
*sweet spot between boredom and anxiety
Inverted U Theory - High pressure
performance decreases and distress increases
- if effective coping strategies are not in place, high stress can lead to a complete meltdown
effect of thinking on stress
effect of actions on stress
being pro-active and tackling problems head-on tends to be more helpful than avoiding them and putting them off
Flow State
when you get caught up in what you are doing and lost sense of self or track of time - “in the zone”
- positive feedback loop
- time seems to stand still
- relaxation but its intense
- present but lose sense of self
- task feels effortless but its actually challenging
Flow Theory
1970’s-1980’s
- state of hyperfocus and complete engagement
“optimal experience”
5 factors thats contribute to “state of flow”
Benefits of Flow state
increase happiness and well-being and strongly counteract worry and stress
examples of activities that can cause flow state
science behind the flow state
what is the flow state based on?
what you are trying to to do on the inside and why is it so meaningful
when are flow states more likely?
intrinsically rewarding examples
Prolonged stress
stress that has shifted from helpful to harmful
- often considered maladaptive and can overwhelm your coping resources and cause significant distress