Technical Definition of Anger
Anger is a negatively, internally felt, psychobiological state, which varies in frequency, intensity and duration.
5 Stages of Anger Episode Model
1. Anger Triggers Negative/Unwanted behaviors Objects Own behavior Extreme events Memories
2. Evaluations (of the triggers) Interpretation/Judgement Awfulizing Low Frustration Tolerance Demandingness Negative Global Ratings of Others/Self Misinterpretations & Distortions.
4. Expression Patterns (in reaction) Holding it in Indirect expression Outward--Physical, Gestures Outward--Verbal: raised voice, accusations, sarcasm, harsh tone, profanity, facial expressions Avoidance Drug Use Positive - Attempts to resolve situation
Negative – interpersonal conflict Negative eval of others Verbal/physical assault, Erratic driving Property destruction Injuries Occupational maladjustment Medical conditions – eg hypertension
Magdol article: gender differences in partner violence, in a birth cohort of 21 yr olds.
Anger expression and frequency varies by gender.
* described anger and partner violence in rep. sample of 941 young adults,
*study converges with community study findings that
1) Women more frequently physically violent toward partner
2) Violence perpetrated against women by men
associated with deviant characteristics
Archer Meta-analysis
7 Intervention Strategies
1) avoidance-escape – avoiding anger provoking situations, escape is leaving situations where you are angry
2) problem solving,
a. positive style – stepping back and relooking at situation, clearly delineate situation and come up with possible solutions. Assess probable outcomes – long and short term, select best alternative and use it.
3) REBT
Most triggers are minor inconveniences.
Thinking creates anger, changing thinking process changes reaction.
Indentify what you were thinking when you felt angry:
Awfulizing
Low frustration tolerance
Demandingness
Negative global ratings of others and of self
Distortions
Misinterpreting actions or intentions
Jumping to conclusions
Correct each of these problematic hot thoughts to warm thoughts. Practice thinking in everyday life.
4) Forgiveness: extremely powerful tool – to allow anger to go, to stop mental replays, unforgiving responses – eg ruminating/avoiding/revenge thoughts
Uncover anger
Decide to forgive, define forgiveness – eg not forgetting, work to understand why people behave badly (contextualize)
5) Relaxtion techniques – progressive muscle relaxtion, prayer, massage,
6) Exposure – imaginal through barbing
7) Assertiveness – middleground between verbal aggression and unassertiveness.