borrow
verb
take and use (something that belongs to someone else) with the intention of returning it.
“he had borrowed a car from one of his colleagues”
lend
verb
grant to (someone) the use of (something) on the understanding that it shall be returned.
“Stewart asked me to lend him my car”
congratulate
verb
give (someone) one’s good wishes when something special or pleasant has happened to them.
“I went into the living room to congratulate Bill on his marriage”
sympathy
noun
feelings of pity and sorrow for someone else’s misfortune.
“they had great sympathy for the flood victims”