Anxious Attachment
attachment marked by anxiety or mixed feelings.
Anxious Ambivalent
baby is clingy, distress at departure, no comfort at return
Anxious Avoidant
attachments are marked by discomfort over being close to others
baby:
- fine when they leave (don’t express distress)
- fine when they’re back
Disorganized
mix of all attachment styles (associated with trauma)
Companionate Love
the affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined
Complementarity
for two people in a relationship to complete what is missing in the other
Disclosure Reciprocity
the mutual and balanced exchange of personal information between individuals in a convo
Equity
the resources a person has access to are similar to their needs (in the tree: given a taller ladder)
Ingratiation
the use of strategies (such as flattery) to gain another’s favour
Matching Phenomenon
the tendency for people to choose partners who are a “good match” in traits and attractiveness
Mere-Exposure Effect
liking a person the more you are exposed to them
Need to Belong
motivation to bond with others
Passionate Love
intense longing for union with one another
Physical-Attractiveness Stereotype
presumption that physical attractive people posses other socially desirable traits as well (like the halo effect)
Proximity
geographical nearness
Reward Theory of Attraction
we like those whose behaviour is rewarding to us
Secure Attachment
rooted in trust and marked by intimacy
baby:
- cries when care giver leaves
- fine when they’re back
- most common
Self-Disclosure
revealing intimate aspects of oneself to others
Two-Factor Theory of Emotion
emotions are a result of physiological arousal (how you react) and what your brain labels that feeling as
attachment marked by anxiety or mixed feelings.
Anxious Attachment
baby is clingy, distress at departure, no comfort at return
Anxious Ambivalent
attachments are marked by discomfort over being close to others
baby:
- fine when they leave (don’t express distress)
- fine when they’re back
Anxious Avoidant
mix of all attachment styles (associated with trauma)
Disorganized
the affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined
Companionate Love
