According to the speaker, what is the definition of discovery?
Skilled curiosity and question asking in order to get clarity on the probabilities of success versus failure in a venture.
Discovery is not just a conversation, it’s a what?
A skilled conversation.
What is the biggest lever you can pull to have a really good discovery?
Curiosity.
In discovery, who has all the answers?
The prospect has all the answers; you just bring the questions.
What is the biggest goal of discovery?
Clarity, both for yourself and for the prospect.
Discovery is NOT about trying to get the prospect to do what?
To buy or to make a decision.
Discovery is about the probability of success or failure within what?
Within the program or venture they are there to discuss, not the probability of them buying.
What are the characteristics of a successful coaching client?
Being coachable, having high intent, personal accountability, and taking extreme ownership.
What are the characteristics of a successful “done for you” investment client?
The ability to trust, fast decision-making, being sold on the vehicle, and the ability to release control.
Just because somebody buys, does that mean they’ll be successful in the program?
No, just because somebody buys doesn’t mean they’re going to be successful.
What is the relationship between the depth of discovery and the decision?
As the depth of discovery increases, so does the probability of a clear, solidified decision.
Why does a deep discovery make the rest of the call easier?
Because it increases the probability that the prospect will make a very clear yes or no decision, which pre-handles objections.
What is the best practice for energy at the opening of a call?
It’s really good to mirror somebody’s energy.
What are two of the speaker’s favorite energies to bring to a call if not mirroring?
An old friend they haven’t seen in ages, or a joyful old grandpa.
Describe the “joyful old grandpa” energy frame.
Slow-moving but full of joy and wisdom, focusing on what matters most in life (family, long-term, doing the right thing).
What is “pacing” in a conversation?
Continuing what is already done, such as repeating an objection back to someone or mirroring their tone of voice.
What is the key principle for rapport building?
Be authentic; if something feels cringey to you, don’t do it because it will make you and the prospect feel weird.
What are the “dos” of the intro and frame?
Introduce yourself, set the agenda, and define roles.
What is the “don’t” of the intro and frame?
Don’t over-pitch or explain too early.
When should you NOT set the agenda?
In a “red ocean” market where people have been on a ton of sales calls about the topic before.
What is a key nuance for your framing statement during the introduction?
Make sure it’s about the prospect and not about you; remove as much of the words “I” and “me” as possible.
What is the best frame to take in the introduction?
That you are “looking for alignment,” because it is objective and not about you or the prospect personally.
What is the analogy for logical discovery?
A puzzle builder, where you start by finding the corners and sides (the frame) first.
What is the first step in logical discovery?
Logistics—the basic, obvious things about the situation.