In an influence context, what is “discovery” less about?
It’s less about you finding out information, because you’ve likely seen the prospect’s situation before.
What is discovery MORE about?
Allowing the person on the other side to discover what’s really going on with themselves.
It’s important for the other person to find out new information about themselves through what action from you?
Through you asking great questions.
What is the “influence blueprint”?
The process that needs to happen during discovery to move someone from a state of curiosity to a decision.
What is the general idea of how the decision-making process works?
We all start externally and slowly move internally.
What is the first step in the decision-making process or “funnel”?
Curiosity—just looking around and being interested.
What is the second step in the decision-making process after Curiosity?
Helping the person realize that the topic is a “big deal.”
How does the speaker use a gutter salesman as an example of making something a “big deal”?
By explaining how faulty gutters can lead to a cracked foundation, which is a much more expensive problem.
What is the third step in the process, after realizing “it’s a big deal”?
The prospect realizes, “I want to do something about this” or “I need to do something about this.”
The “I need to do something about it” stage signifies what important shift?
The shift from an external problem to an internal responsibility for the prospect.
At what point in the process can the persuader start to “push back” or “push away”?
After the prospect has stated, “I need to do something about this” or “I want to do something about this.”
What is the psychological effect of “pushing back” at this stage?
It makes the other person pull themselves back in and start to fight for the solution.
What is the fourth step in the funnel, after “I want to do something about it”?
The prospect realizes, “I don’t want to do nothing about this” or “I can’t do nothing about it.”
At the “I can’t do nothing” stage, what new element can the persuader push back on?
Time (e.g., “Why not just put it off for a couple of years?”).
At what point is the product or service usually pitched?
When the prospect realizes that now is the time to do something about the problem, rather than pushing it off.
What is the final stage of the discovery process, where a decision is made?
When the prospect starts to realize, “Oh, this is the perfect thing for what I need. This is exactly what I’m looking for.”
The speaker uses the word “influence” loosely because, at the end of the day, you can’t do what?
You can’t make them do something with 100% certainty if they don’t want to do it.
When using this discovery process, we are dealing in what?
Probabilities, not certainties.
Following the influence blueprint steps increases the probability of what?
The probability that the other person will see the value in their own head enough to make a decision in the direction we want.