Adult attachment
Attachment is a lifelong process that begins in infancy and continues throughout the lifespan, including childhood, adolescence, and adulthood (Hazan & Shaver, 1987)
infant attachment carries over into adult attachment; early attachment experiences may form a “blueprint” for adult romantic relationships (Hazan & Shaver, 1993)
Functions of Adult Attachment
Emotion regulation, conflict resolution, and stress management (Cloninger, 2008)
Diamond et al (2008)
Couples with low anxiety had lower average logged cortisol during separation than couples with high anxiety
low anxiety: cortisol went down during separation and stays stable at reunion
high anxiety: cortisol goes up at separation and goes back down at reunion
Attachment style and romantic attraction
Klohnen et al (2003)
high romantic attraction to lower romantic attraction
partner 1:
secure–> preoccupied–> fearful–> dismissing
Partner 4:
Attachment–> all others
Blatt et al.’s “Dialectic Model of Personality Development and Psychopathology” (2005, p. 291)
self definition
the development of a realistic, differentiated, positive, integrated, stable, mature, and consolidated self-identity
Who am I?
Identity
Blatt et al.’s “Dialectic Model of Personality Development and Psychopathology” (2005, p. 291)
relatedness
The development of a capacity for stable, mature, satisfying, and reciprocal interpersonal relationships
How do I relate to others?
Blatt et al.’s “Dialectic Model of Personality Development and Psychopathology” (2005, p. 291)
self-definition and relatedness emerge reciprocally, dialectically, and synergistically
in other words, mature self-definition is contingent on mature relatedness and vice versa (Blatt, 1995a)
Dependent Personality Traits
helplessness in the interpersonal domain
need for approval: “my value as a person depends greatly on what others think of me”
clingy, lonely, excessively needy, and externally focused
worried about obtaining support, appeasing others, receiving nurturance, avoiding abandonment, and maintaining closeness
Source: Blatt et al. (1976); Weissman and Beck (1978)
High levels of trait dependency and dependent personality disorder are associated with _____________
elevated risk for physical illness
victimization by others
victimization of others
suicidality
high levels of functional impairment
increased health care expenditure
(paraphrased from Bornstein, 2012, p. 766).
Personality and Psychopathology
complex syndromes
“distinct symptom constellations that are enmeshed within a complex network of problematic personality traits” (Millon, 2002, p. 212)
Personality and Psychopathology
simple reactions
“clinical symptoms that are relatively free of ‘contaminating’ personality traits” (Millon, 2002, p. 212)
Personality and Psychopathology
personality patterns
“a configuration of relatively cohesive personality traits and dispositions” (Millon, 2002, p. 212)
dependency and loss (bonanno et al., 2002)
Five core bereavement patterns were identified: common grief, chronic grief, chronic depression, improvement during bereavement, and resilience.
Common grief was relatively infrequent, and the
resilient pattern most frequent.
chronic depression group and chronic grief group, characterized by higher interpersonal dependency and spousal dependency
belongingness
humans are ______
humans need ______
Humans are “naturally driven toward establishing and sustaining belongingness”
Humans need “frequent, nonaversive interactions within an ongoing relational bond”
satiation and substitution
(Baumeister & Leary, 1995)
Neediness
anxious overconcern with rejection
very needy
Helplessness, powerlessness, and concern over desertion
no differentiation: latch on to anyone
connectedness
valuing relationships
appropriate sensitivity to others in relationships
differentiated sense of self
may get upset in response to loss of specific relationship