What are the “Five Toos” used for in coaching psychology?
They are a boundary-management tool to help coaches recognise when a client’s issues may be more psychological than developmental, signalling the need for referral to a psychologist.
What is the first of the Five Toos?
Too Long — the client’s difficulty has persisted for an extended period, suggesting an entrenched psychological issue rather than a situational one.
What does “Too Long” indicate in the Five Toos?
The problem has existed for a long time, implying that therapy may be needed to address underlying causes.
What is the second of the Five Toos?
Too Extreme — the client’s emotions or behaviours are excessive or disproportionate to the circumstances.
What does “Too Extreme” suggest about a client’s presentation?
Their reactions may be at a clinical level of distress or dysregulation, outside the coaching scope.
What is the third of the Five Toos?
Too Pervasive — the issue affects multiple areas of life, not just the coaching context.
What does “Too Pervasive” signal to a coach?
The client’s difficulty extends across work, relationships, or wellbeing, suggesting deeper psychological concerns.
What is the fourth of the Five Toos?
Too Defended — the client shows strong psychological defences or avoidance patterns.
How might a coach recognise a “Too Defended” client?
The client may deny, rationalise, or project responsibility, making reflective coaching work difficult.
What is the fifth of the Five Toos?
Too Resistant — the client shows ongoing resistance to feedback, reflection, or change despite coaching efforts.
What does “Too Resistant” imply about readiness for coaching?
The client may have deeper psychological blocks that require therapeutic, not coaching, intervention.
How do the Five Toos support ethical practice?
They help coaches stay within their professional boundaries and refer clients appropriately, ensuring safety and effectiveness.
Who developed or popularised the Five Toos model in coaching psychology?
The framework is associated with the University of Sydney’s Coaching Psychology Unit, building on work by Professor Anthony Grant and colleagues.
Are the Five Toos diagnostic criteria?
No — they are practical indicators, not diagnostic tools, guiding ethical decision-making in coaching.
When applying the Five Toos, what should a coach do if a client’s problem has lasted “Too Long”?
Recognise that long-standing issues are likely entrenched and therapeutic in nature; the coach should discuss boundaries and refer to a psychologist.
If a client’s emotional reactions are “Too Extreme,” what is the ethical response?
Pause coaching, ensure the client’s safety, and refer to a mental-health professional. Continuing could risk harm or exceed the coach’s competence.
What coaching response is appropriate when an issue is “Too Pervasive”?
Acknowledge that the problem extends across life domains and cannot be resolved through performance or developmental coaching alone; referral is warranted.
How should a coach manage a client who appears “Too Defended”?
Notice patterns of avoidance or denial, explore readiness for change, and if defences persist, refer for therapy rather than pushing insight-based work.
What might a coach observe in a client who is “Too Resistant”?
Persistent blocking, avoidance of feedback, or minimal progress despite varied coaching methods — all suggesting underlying psychological resistance.
What is the ethical action if a client is “Too Resistant”?
Stop or suspend coaching, discuss observations transparently, and suggest therapy to address possible underlying issues before resuming coaching.
Why is recognising the Five Toos important for professional boundaries?
It helps the coach stay within the limits of their competence, preventing role confusion between coach and therapist.
How can a coach raise referral ethically when one of the Five Toos applies?
With empathy and professionalism — by explaining that the client may benefit from deeper psychological support and offering resources or referrals.
What risks exist if a coach ignores the Five Toos?
Breaching ethical codes, practising beyond scope, causing harm, or fostering dependence rather than empowerment.
In supervision, how might the Five Toos be used?
As a reflective lens to review challenging clients, assess boundary clarity, and ensure appropriate referrals have been considered.