What are the three primary purposes of attachment
3 types of connection provided by attachment
How do effective attachment relationship modify stress factors affecting childhood development?
They serve as a buffer and reduce the negative impacts
Is “family comes first, I come second” a pathological response?
No, it is a reflection of different cultural norms
Do all emotions exist in all cultures?
No, for example sadness doesn’t exist in Tahiti – they perceive the somatic sensations as tiredness
Do parents have to verbally communicate to children to pass on developmental learnings?
No, nonverbal communication is very powerful
4 categories of factors that inform a person’s attachment patterns
What two things are more important than getting our contact statements correct?
3 Actions associated with Proximity Seeking
3 Actions associated with Distancing
What is the most extreme of childhood abuse and the hardest to treat?
Neglect
What is the influencer of the number of connections between OPFC and amygdala?
The amount of attuned caregiving we got
Can a child do their own emotional regulation?
No, children depend on an adult’s nervous system
What is more important – tolerance for positive states or negative states?
Neither – they are equally as important
What is the value of disruption in the attachment relationships? (2 things)
How does a person learn auto-regulation?
From an attachment figure repeating soothing actions over time
What conditions created babies at 6 months that had the best auto-regulation capability?
The caregivers that would let the child dysregulate a little before coming in to regulate interactively
If a person is having trouble dropping into an emotion (not just uncomfortable) or is losing mindfulness/cognitive ability, what could that be an indicator of?
Some unresolved trauma
Why do we work with trauma first?
To make sure that the client has a wider zone of optimal arousal to allow them to be present and metabolize difficult emotions and pain. A client can be expressing deep emotions yet not get benefit due to lack of ability to integrate.
4 more specific tasks within the goal of widening a client’s zone of optimal arousal when doing developmental injury work
What is “memory glue” and what happens to this glue and the memories during trauma?
The ability of the hippocampus to engage in long-term potentiation. Hippocampus is inhibited during events perceived as a life-threat and so the memory glue is missing and that page of the life story book is floating loose in the body
In the simplest terms, what is a developmental injury? What may a person with this type of injury think about themselves?
A wound to the sense of self or a disowning a part of self, typically caused within an attachment relationship.
A person may think - “I suck as a person”
What is relational trauma? Does this result in disorganized attachment?
Something that happened within a relationship that elicited animal defenses and dissociation.
Does not necessarily result in disorganized attachment.
What is attachment trauma? Does this result in disorganized attachment?
The perception that attaching to the caregiver is unsafe due to past trauma experiences.
Results in disorganized attachment.