What 4 things to keep in mind when working with a client who just keeps talking and doesn’t seem to ever drop in?
What is the rule of thirds with respect to time spent in the stages of the process within an individual counseling session?
1st third - Container/Framing
2nd third - Accessing/Processing/Transformation
3rd third - Integration
6 Steps of the container stage for developmental work
What are two signs that a contact statement lands with a client
Three options for a physical experiment in the context of developmental work
What do we do during steps to mindfulness when we don’t get a mindful report from the client?
Go back to contact statement and continue the cycle from there
What’s an important quote from Pat to keep in mind when pacing a session?
Slower is faster.
How do we know when to stop doing rounds of steps to mindfulness during developmental work?
Once we have all 5 core organizers.
What’s an example statement from Rebecca to help probe for memories/images?
Does this feel familiar?
What principle do we follow when determining what core organizers to ask the client to notice first vs save for later
Go with the easiest ones first as they will help the other more difficult core organizers to come out later.
Why is meaning essential to developmental processing?
Because the implicit beliefs often inform much of client’s behavior and relationship dynamics
Three examples of questions that can elicit a body-based meaning?
What is the activity of “going for meaning from the body” and what is the purpose?
It is an experiment that integrates non-verbal, somatic and emotional meaning (right brain) with language (left brain).
The purpose is to light up enough state specific memory so that we can take an automatic and implicit meaning and bring it into explicit and reflective awareness (e.g. integrate the right brain and the left brain)
4 techniques besides contact statements that can help deepen a client’s somatic experience
What did Rebecca do when the demo client wanted to “break out” and “walk away” (escape from the painful meaning) during the going for meaning from the body experiment.
She validated the work of the protector part/adult self and that it’s uncomfortable. Then asked if they could come back to the original frame.
How to leave the session in a better place if time is starting to run out and there’s not enough time to complete the exercise of going for meaning from the body? (4 steps)
What is an example of a statement that can be made to help soothe clients who feel like they are not doing enough or session was not good enough
Whatever you have done today, let it be enough
What are the five basic motions associated with attachment and what does each represent (in general)?
Non-verbal way to interrupt the client in person
Lean forward
How to make verbal interruptions less disruptive
Use one word contact + qualifier (huh?)
What are the three primary functions of emotions?
4 Categories of Emotion and why is it important to recognize the category?
It’s important because this guides the therapist’s responses.
What are patterned emotions and what is an example?
Something learned because the primary emotion was ineffective or resulted in negative responses.
For example, a client that was dismissed when they were afraid could have anger as a patterned emotion
Why is it important to identify the primary emotion and what is one way to identify?
Because primary emotions are the ones that we can successfully sequence.
To identify, you can ask yourself are there emotions below this one. Primary emotion once contacted with have a sense of depth and stand out.