Define non verbal communication
The bodily actions and vocal qualities that typically accompany a verbal message. Non linguistic components of communication
Kinesics
Paralanguage
People form impression on you based on paralanguage:
- Personality
- SES
- Gender
- Age
- Poor encoding
Face
Eyes
Functions of Eye Contact:
Touch
Proxemics (spatial messages)
Factors influencing distance
Listening blocks
1.Comparing
2.Rehearsing
3.Dreaming
4.Judging
5.Placating (people pleasing)
6.Mind reading
7.Filtering
8.Identifying
9.Derailing (it’s the ‘joke off’ or quip to change the subject)
10.Being Right
11.Advising
12.Sparring (making snap judgements and becoming competitive)