Separate people from problem
4 facets of principled negotiation
Focus on interests not positions
Your position is something you decided upon; your interests are what caused you to decide
-for every interest there usually exist several possible positions that could satisfy it
Identifying interests
Figuring out their interests are just as important as figuring out yours
Inventing options
Not a fixed pie- inventing and creativity are key
Dovetailing
Looking for mutual gain- dovetailing interests
Invent several options and ask what’s preferable, maybe not acceptable but preferable;
Take that option, rework it, present 2 or more variants and ask again
Look for items that are of low cost to you and high benefit to them
Insist on Objective criteria
The more u bring standards of fairness, efficiency, or scientific merit to bear on your problem the more likely you are to produce a package that is wise and fair
Reason you negotiate
BATNA
Making imp decisions
Good negotiator rarely makes imp decision on the spot; comes to table with credible reason for leaving when he wants- but reason should not passivity or inability to decide
Dealing with dirty tactics
Recognize it
Raise the issue explicitly
Question its legitimacy and desirability