Affirmation
Something reassuring or encouraging to the client or some strength of the client that you notice and make explicit in your interaction with them.
Why are affirmations useful?
It lets the client know that they are not just “sick” and “broken” but has strengths and the ability to change.
Why are affirmations tricky?
False affirmatios hurt the client. Affirmations must be genuine. Do not offer them.
Simple Affirmations
An affirmation that is positive or encouraging to the client.
Examples
“Good to see you”
“That’s great”
What are some of the risks of simple affirmations?
They tend to go in a circle.
They can appear insincere.
Complex Affirmations
A complex affirmations will include information about their
strengths
accomplishments
intentions
efforts
What is the heart of a Summary?
What you tell me is so important that I remember it.
Neutrality
Making sure you don’t steer the conversation one direction or another. In MI the therapist remains neutral before the client has decided on a course of action.
Agape
Selfless or unconditional love