Theorists of Object Relations:
Major Concepts of Object Relations:
Theory of Dysfunction in Object Relations:
Negative aspects of repressed, introjected, distorted early “objects” (primarily parents) are projected onto the spouse or children.
Symptoms are a manifestation of distorted introjections.
Theory of Change in Object Relations:
Resolve underlying conflicts will contribute to behavioral change (vs. opposite in strategic)
Stages of therapy in object relations:
Therapy is often long-term
Stance of therapist in object relations:
Methods/Techniques of Object Relations:
Diagnosis/Assessment of Object Relations:
General goals of Object Relations:
‘Insight’ (understanding of subconscious dynamics) and ‘working through’ (translating insights into new more productive ways of behaving/interacting).
Goals change as growth occurs.
Not directed toward symptom relief.
Development of object relations and splitting occurs by:
Key words: ideal, rejecting, exciting, antilibidinal, libidinal
Infant experiences the other as a rejecting object leading to antilibidinal ego (aggression, rage, contempt) or experiences the other as an exciting object leading to libidinal ego (need, excitement, and longing), both repressed.
The antilibidinal and libidinal systems are subconscious and not open to change by later experiences. The rest of the central ego maintains a neutral, ideal object.
As a child, will absorb bad-object introjects to seek approval and avoid abandonment. The repressed or split-off traits are projected onto other people, often placing unreasonable demands on them. They pay for the mistreatment the now adult experience from FOO as a child.
What is projective identification?
Object Relations.
Dysfunctional defense mechanism where unwanted characteristics/feelings towards self are unconsciously projected onto another person who colludes by behaving as if these projections are true of them.
Interactional, unlike projection. Intrapsychic conflict becomes externalized, and it’s ALWAYS mutual.
Big player in pregnancy and transition to parenthood.
Describe object relations and the formation of relationships.
Key words: ideal, exciting, rejecting
Scharff and Scharff
We choose a partner that becomes an exciting and ideal object. The rejecting object is buried under the weight of the idealized object.
Influence of past generations to fulfill unconscious dreams for a loving union.
In an atmosphere of trust and love, the undesirable aspects of self can be contained, accepted, or modified.
Discuss Framo FOO therapy:
Part of Object Relations.
Begin couple therapy to address surface concerns (ex. communication). Eventually come to an impasse where partners cannot reconcile differing conceptions of ideal partner and marriage. Bring in FOO of each partner for separate sessions to correct distortions.
What are the similarities between the transgenerational models? (5) philosophy, assessment, change, length
Bowen, Contextual/Nagy, and Object Relations
Difference in how transgenerational models conceptualize dysfunction:
Bowen - low differentiation, chronic anxiety, triangles
Nagy/Contextual - destructive entitlements, imbalanced ledger
Object relations - negative aspects of repressed, introjected early objects are projected onto spouse or children
Difference in goal of therapy in transgenerational models:
Bowen - differentiate between thoughts and feelings and between self and others, reduce anxiety, take responsibility for actions
Nagy/Contextual - exoneration, balancing the ledger, and restoring capacity for fairness and trust
Object relations - identify and express repressed memories, resolve negative aspects of introjects, and detach and differentiate from bad objects
Difference in therapist stance in transgenerational models:
Bowen - coach
Nagy - multidirectional partiality
Object relations - non-directive to encourage transference