How would you plant Ideas as if they were others?
You can play ideas in someones head by saying them out loud to someone else such as “I really wish a girl would give me chocolate for valentines” near the girl you want to give you chocolate for valentines, you can go even further and explain as to why that is. You can also bring up the start of an idea and allow them to finish it off then proceed by calling them inteligent.
How do you use their past against them?
The vulnerable points in their past are the easiest path to forming a need for approval. You listen, and begin advising over time till they look to you as a saviour.
How do you control time abandonment?
Whenever things feel amazing you can cut off or when things feel terrible you can cut off. Either way any gap they feel missing will automatically be misattributed to you.
How do you project their darkness onto themselves?
Any desire they feel such as lust, greed, envy, all of them you can use against them. Implant evil into their heads and convince them they’re terrible subtly like a backhanded compliment. They will feel gifted by your presence.
How do you find what they fear and use it?
Look for over explaining, or avoidance of certain things. Then once you find the fear you slowly convince them that you can help it.
How to learn and use mental detachment?
Mentally tell yourself you are an observer, not a participant. Imagine you are watching the event on a television screen. This can create a buffer between the emotional trigger and your response. Then use your emotional detachment to find the best way possible to control the outcomes around even if it hurts those around you.
Let others feel smart
When you let someone else feel smart they will accept you and welcome you in since you make them feel up about themselves but they also want to be surrounded by people under them.
Subtle generalised controlling statement?
A statement that will make people not do something.
“Theres so many people that do ___ behaviour, I’m glad its you and me talking.” Getting them to agree they are not that type of person. So they aren’t agreeing to an idea but to an identity. If they answer a question such as “wow, how do you get so emotionally open i could never do that” if they reply that means they have now accepted their identity as being emotionally open.
Affect of an admission after a subtle controlling statement?
An admission after a subtle generalising controlling statement makes the affect of it skyrocket.
“wow, how do you get so emotionally open i could never do that, I’ve always had to work on it.” The “I’ve always had to work on it.” will greatly increase the effectiveness of the statement.
Controlling someones identity?
Controlling someones identity works very well in getting them to behave a certain way but after a point it does get very obvious.
Controlling someones expectancy?
If you have an outcome in mind all you need to make the other person do is think of that same outcome through exposure to words, or thoughts. Your succeeding if you can vividly paint pictures in someones head that even their mammilian brain could easily understand.
Controlling thought using unfinished conversations?
When a conversation goes unfinished it causes people to think and look back on what the outcome would be. This means you could bring in personal interruption such as a friend suddenly coming in and dragging you away quickly for something important. This is a phenomenal curiosity hook.
Embedded commands
Leaving a space between certain words in sentences to stand them out and make people thinking about them. “It is so amazing how in this documentary people manage to develop this (pause) great connection (pause) and…” Doing this with things such as pointing to yourself and the target while speaking will naturally make them find you and them to have a great connection without you even saying you felt great connection with them.
How would you make an individual reveal more information?
To make an individual reveal more information you make a statement that is clearly wrong so they correct it giving you the correct information.
How do you make someone do something out of the ordinary?
To make someone do something out of the ordinary all you need to do is change context. Say you wanted to convince someone to kill another. They wouldn’t want to do it. But, if the other person is thought to be trying to kill them, they will do it in seconds.
How do you make someone think an idea is their own?
To make someone think an idea is their own you need to make them feel clever for that idea.
What are Milton statements?
“Milton statements” refer to language patterns from the Milton Model in Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP), which use artfully vague, indirect, and ambiguous phrasing to bypass conscious resistance and influence the unconscious mind, often through hypnotic suggestion, embedded commands, and generalizations, making them useful in therapy, coaching, and sales. Key examples include using words like “everyone” and “always,” presupposing understanding (“I know you’re wondering…”), and embedding commands like “relax and go into a trance” within a larger sentence.
Silence?
Silence naturally make people want to fill it since they don’t want awkwardness. This can be a extraordinarily useful tool to uncovering secrets.
