What is self-concept?
Your beliefs about yourself, including traits, qualities, and identity.
What are the three parts of Carl Rogers’ self-concept?
Self-image, self-worth, and ideal-self.
What happens when self-image, self-worth, and ideal-self don’t overlap?
Incongruence → imbalance, possible mental health issues.
What is congruence?
When your self-image, self-worth, and ideal-self align → balance & self-actualization.
What is the “looking-glass self”?
The idea that we see ourselves through how we think others view us.
What are Cooley’s 3 steps of the looking-glass self?
Define self-esteem.
Your personal evaluation of your abilities and limitations (subjective, not always based on facts).
How do self-esteem and communication affect each other?
They have a cycle: self-esteem influences how you communicate, and communication shapes self-esteem.
What is self-compassion?
Being kind to yourself, recognizing common humanity, and practicing mindfulness with your struggles.
What are “vulture statements”?
Negative self-talk, like “I’m dumb” or “I can’t do anything right.”
What are four ways to challenge vulture statements?
: Check facts, look at it differently, put in perspective, use goals.