Relationships Flashcards

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Describe sexual selection

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  • Type of natural selection
  • Shaping traits related to mating and reproduction
  • Certain traits evolve and pass down
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Describe what is meant by Anisogamy

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  • Differences in male and female sex cells
  • Males in large quantities, quickly replenished
  • Females take lots of energy to produce, limited numbers
  • Different strategies for reproductive success
  • Leads to inter and intra selection
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Describe intersexual selection

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  • Individuals select mates based on certain desirable traits
  • E.g. resources of protection, parental investment, face symmetry
  • The sexy son hypothesis
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Describe the sexy son hypothesis

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  • Fisher
  • Genes we see today are enhanced by reproductive success i.e. tall men - attractive kids mean the gene pool continues
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Describe intrasexual selection

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  • Male strat
    Mate competition - winner mats and pass on characteristics that lead to victory
  • Physical competition - animals
  • Display strength or skill e.g. success, weath
  • Physical dismorphism
  • Agression, possessiveness
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Outline self disclosure

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  • The idea that relationship formation is built on trust with another person
  • Gradually revealing personal information e.g. thoughts, feelings, experience
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Describe the social penetration theory

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  • Altman and Taylor
  • By gradually revealing emotions and experiences and listening leads to increased trust
  • Breadth and depth
    Breadth = various facets of a persons life, such as work and hobbies
    Depth = details concerning each areas
  • Onion metaphor
  • Reis and Shaver
  • When an individual reveals something hopefully the partner responds in a rewarding way leading to greater intimacy
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Describe some evolutionary factors for the importance of physical attractiveness

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  • Shackelford and Larson found that people with symmetrical faces are rated more attractive (genetic fitness)
  • Neotenous features such as widely separated and large eyes, delicate chin, small nose also deemed as attractive
  • Trigger a protective instinct, valuable resource for females
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Describe the halo effect in attraction

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  • We have preconceived ideas about the personality traits that attractive people must have = universally positive
  • Dion et al found that attractive people are consistently rated as kind, strong, sociable in comparison = self fulfilling prophecies
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Describe what is meant by the matching hypothesis

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  • Walster and Walster suggests that we look for partners who are similar to ourselves, rather than choosing the most appealing people
    Physical attractiveness, intelligence, personality
  • People first make a judgement about themselves and then look for someone similar
  • Reduces the chance of rejection
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Describe the “computer dance” by - Walster et al

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Procedure:
- 752 students
- Rated on physical attractiveness by 4 judges beforehand
- Ppts asked to fill in a questionnaire, supposidly for the purposes of computer paring but actually to rate similarity
- Ppts randomly paired and asked to rate date
Findings:
- More attractive students were favoured as dates over the less attractive ones
- People did not take their own attractiveness into account
Replication:
- Replicated by Bersheid et al, ppts were able to select their own partners from varying degree of attractiveness
- Partners tended to select partners who matched them in physical attractiveness

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Name all the filter theory’s

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Social demography, similarity in attitudes and complementarity

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Describe the social demography filter

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  • Sociodemographic characteristics like physical proximity, level of education, social class
  • Increase the chances of meeting in the first place
  • See frequently to build relationship
  • Similarity gives assurance of moving forward
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Describe the similarity in attitudes filter

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  • People tend to view others as more attractive if they share the same core beliefs and attitudes e.g. career and family particularly in the early stages
  • Byrne notes its important in early stages >18 months
  • Self disclosure and intimacy
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Describe the complementarity filter

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  • Partners having some traits that the other partner lacks and helping others fulfill their needs
  • E.g. one partner may enjoy meeting new people whilst another may enjoy being introduced to people
  • Complement one another
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Describe the basics of SET

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  • Thibault and Kelly describe romantic relationships using the economic terminology of profit (rewards) and loss (costs)
  • Claim that partners strive to maximise rewards (things like companionship, praise, sex) and minimise costs (stress, arguments, time)
  • Notions of rewards and costs are subjective
  • Costs also change over time
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Describe what is meant by comparison levels

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What do I deserve?
- Previous relationships
- Social norms
- Books films TV
- Change over time
- Linked to self esteem

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Describe what is meant by comparison level for alternatives

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Could I do better?
- Wider context
- More profit and less costs
- Duck et al - the clalt we adopt depends on the state of our current relationships
- Satisfying relationship = do not see alternatives

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Describe equity in relationships

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  • Equity is fairness, equality is sameness
  • Overbenefiting = guilt /shame
    Underbenefiting = anger / resentfulness/ humiliation
  • Leads to dissatisfaction / break up
  • Walster et al suggests that what matters most is that both partners level of profit is roughly the same
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Describe some of the possible consequences of inequity

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  • Cognitive change is a change in perception about what is normal
  • Behavioural change leads to an increase in effort put in by the underbenefitter
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Define the term commitment according to the investment model

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A romantic partners intention or desire to continue a relationship, reflecting a belief that the relationship has a viable long -term future

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Name the 3 major factors that maintain commitment in relationships

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Satisfaction level, comparison with alternatives, investment size

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Define the satisfaction level and explain the influence on commitment

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Based on CL
- Costs and rewards
Many rewards = satisfying
- Partners are generally satisfied when they get more out of the relationship than they get based on previous relationships

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Define and explain comparison with alternatives and explain the influence on commitment

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Based on the CLALT
- Could the needs be better met outside of this relationship
- No relationship

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Define and explain investment and explain the influence on commitment
CL and CLALT are not enough to explain commitment - every time a relationship costing too much it would end
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According to the Rusbult investment model there are two types of investment, name and describe these
- Intrinsic invesments: Anything we directly put into the relationship (money, possessions, energy, emotions, self disclosure) - Extrinsic investments: Things that did not previously exist but do now (jointly bought items, mutual friends, children, shared memories) - Both can be tangible or intangible
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High levels of commitment in relationships expresses itself in everyday maintenance behaviour; name and describe at least 3 of these behaviours
- Partners do not work on a tit for tat basis -> they promote the relationship (accommodation) - Put their partners interests first (willingness to sacrifice) - Forgive transgressions - Cognitive elements: Partners think about themselves in specific (predictable) ways - Partners are painted in a (often unrealistically) positive light while alternatives more negatively
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Name and describe the first stage in Duck's Phase model
- Intrapsychic stage - Person admits to himself or herself that they are dissatisfied with the relationship, and they spend a lot of time thinking about the reasons for this dissatisfaction and the possible ways forward - Focuses on a persons internal thought process that occurs before confronting the partner - Threshold of "I can't stand this anymore"
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Name and describe the second stage in Duck's Phase model
- Dyadic stage - Person confronts their partner and voices their dissatisfaction - Lots of complaints coming from the partner initiating the break up e.g. lack of commitment - The dissatisfied partner also rethinks the alternatives to their current relationships - Threshold is "I would be justified in withdrawing"
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Name and describe the third stage in Duck's Phase model
- Social stage - If up to this point, the couple generally kept their disagreements private, at the next phase they involve friends / relatives to make their distress public - Once conflict reaches this stage, it is more difficult for a couple to mend their relationship e.g. friends take sides, intervene -> reconciliation more problematic - Threshold is "I mean it" - Leads to dissolution
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Name and describe the fourth and final stage in Duck's Phase model
- Grave-dressing - Having left their partner, both sides construct their version of why their relationship broke down - Involves minimising their faults and maximising their partner's, but at the same time trying to show themselves as trustworthy and loyal in order to attract a new partner - Closure of previous relationship and readiness to start new one - Threshold is "its time to start a new life"
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Describe one difference between face - to - face and virtual relationships in relation to self disclosure
- Self - disclosure tends to happen much faster in online - One reason for this is the anonymity associated with online relationships; people tend to hold off disclosing personal info in real life for fear of ridicule or rejection - However, their is much less risk in virtual relationships, so people can share personal experience and thoughts without much of a risk that intimate info will get to people they know
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Describe the hyper - personal model
- Walther argues that CMC can be more intimate and can involve more self disclosure -> often develop very quickly and, once established, are more intense - Selective self presentation -> Idealised -> Hyperhonest/ hyperdishonest -> Reinforcement - Anonymity -> Also promotes self disclosure -> Strangers on a train effect (Bargh et al) -> People don't know you, so you feel less accountable for your behaviour
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Describe the Reduced Cues Theory
- Sproull and Kiesler suggest that CMC relationships are less effective than F2F because they lack cues that we often depend on -> Non-verbal communications e.g. physical appearance, tone of voice, facial expressions - Individuation is the loss of personal identity -> encourages dis inhibition in relating to others -> blunt and aggressive communication - A reluctance to self-disclose -> you are unlikely to want to initiate a relationship with someone who is impersonal or want to reveal innermost feelings to them
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The absence of gating is a further theory of virtual relationships. Explain what this means.
- In real life, attraction is greatly influenced by their appearance, mannerisms, and factors such as age and ethnicity, limiting choice of potential partners - In virtual relationships, 'barriers' are absent; creates more opportunities for shy and less attractive people to develop romantic relationships - Even when these factors are discovered later, when relationships move from virtual to the face-to-face phase, they rarely decrease an already developed attraction, as a result of the feeling of intimacy brought by more open self-disclosure - The absence of gating means people establish virtual identities and be more outgoing
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Identify and describe the first level of parasocial relationships by Giles and Maltby
Entertainment social - Normal - Least intense level of worship - Source of entertainment
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Identify and describe the second level of parasocial relationships by Giles and Maltby
Intense personal - Obsessed but sane - Intermediate level of worship - Greater personal involvement
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Identify and describe the third level of parasocial relationships by Giles and Maltby
Borderline pathological - Delusional and probably dangerous - Strongest level of worship - Uncontrollable fantasies - Stalking - Spending lots of money
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Describe the absorbtion addiction model
- McCutcheon et al. linked the three levels of parasocial relationships to the deficiencies they have in their own lives e.g. low self esteem or lacking self fulfilment - Progression through stages occurs due to finding fulfilment or triggers by a crisis - Absorbtion: seeking fulfilment motivates for focus on the individual - Addiction: individuals need to sustain their commitment by feeling a stronger involvement leading to more extreme behaviour or delusions
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Refering to Bowlby, describe the attachment explanation for parasocial relationships
- Bowlby's theory predicts that individuals who didn't form a strong bond with a primary caregiver in early childhood will try to find an attachment substitute in adulthood (parasocial relationships)
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Which attachment type is most likely to form parasocial relationships
Insecure resistant due to unfulfilled needs having to be met - without the accompanying rejection, break up and disappointment. -> Avoidant - prefer to avoid the pain and rejection of a relationship altogether