BDSM

Question 1

Fetish

Answer 1

an unusually strong liking or need for a particular object or activity, as a way of getting sexual pleasure (fixation)

they need the object/activity to orgasm

Question 2

Kink

Answer 2

kinkiness is the use of non-conventional sexual practices concepts or fantasis (BDSM)

the object/activity does not need to be there for oragsm

Question 3

Perversion

Answer 3

perversion is a form of human behaviour which deviates from what is considered to be orthodox and normal

not bad in the bdsm community

Question 4

BDSM

Answer 4

Acronyms refering to practices of

Bondage Discipline/Dominance and Subimission/Sadism and Masochism

Question 5

Phatologizing Paraphilia

Answer 5

• the first records of BDSM 3000 BDSM - Ancient Sumerian goddess-safe word
• 2010 : American Psyactric association announced that it would be changing the diagnostic codes for BDSM
• 2011 - 50 shades of gray sold over 150 millions
• 2015 sexual sadism and masochism were changed to sexual sadism disorder and sexual misochism disorder -

Question 6

ssc

Answer 6

• Safe
• Sane
• Consensual
• Risk-Aware Consensual Kink (RACK)

Question 7

PRICK

most common

Answer 7

Personal
Responsability
Informed
Concensual
Kink

Question 8

BDSM is different then abuse

Answer 8

because it is consesual

Question 9

Role-play is like bad acting

Answer 9

you are not unlike yourself, but more like yourself in the realm of fantasy

Question 10

rituals

Answer 10

are powerful way to signify a shift into play

fantasy is the realm of possibility

Question 11

why engage in BDSM

Answer 11

• Exchanging power(through which they experience a sense of freedom)
• Seeking novelty or intensity through a new sexual experience
• increasing connection

Question 12

what is Garden of Boidish Delights

Answer 12

a painting that has an erotic suggestions

one side is heaven, other hell, in the middle earth - evrybody is naked

Question 13

How can BDSM help women?
act as therapy?

Answer 13

• heal their relationship to power
• step into their unique leadership potential
• move through shame into self-acceptance within community

Question 14

power

Answer 14

dominance state is not about getting power but about learning all the ways you can stop giving power away.

its not about taking,but recognition of power within yourselves

help other recognize the power they have in them

so the submissive also allows them to be aware of what they want and how to ask for it

power is the ability to move enertgy is mutial

Question 15

submission and power

Answer 15

submission is not powerless. its recognizing the power you do have and willingly choosing to surrender

Question 16

BDSM vs Abuse

Answer 16

• for pleasure vs to cause pain

Question 17

why is eroticims healing?

Answer 17

empathy(dominance) and intimacy(submission) produces eroticism and allows one to look inwards about their wants and needs

Question 18

what are the results of moving through shame into acceptance

Question 19

masochism as escaper from self

Answer 19

pain allows focus on the immidiate present and on the bodily sensation

temporary suspension from the burden of selfhood - choice,shame,etc

Question 20

BDSM can be therapeutic

Answer 20

• predictable in negotiation
• rewring trauma
• aftercare and repair

Question 21

trauma play

Answer 21

reacting traumatic event but in a safe enviroment

a person learns to transencde his or her past rather then repeating it and stunting growth

can allow control in something tramautic