what is the hanky an extended metaphor for
the mother
not paper tissues bought in packs
juxtaposition to hanky - suggests that the daughter’s version of motherhood is fragile and lacks care
late night garages
convenient, unsentimental
waving out of trains
contrasts the image of late night garages by presenting a more meaningful image - societal change
embroidered with a V for Viv
permanent, significant - extended metaphor for the older idea of motherhood which was more personal
spittled and scrubbed against my face
sibilance - emphatic of her past disgust at this invasive level of care but now she misses it due to her grief
as if she had a farm up there
farm used as a metaphor for growth and cultivation - her mother nurtured her, she had a personal upbringing
I never did.
caesura emphatic of the separation between her and her mother’s parenting styles and generations
asyndetic listing in 3rd stanza
shows the extent of care she recieved
naffest christmas gifts
her lack of appreciation at the time
serious and grey and larger
reminded of the patriarchy of the time - she doesn’t want to go back to this society
greengrocer george
proper nouns to suggest community
enj between stanza 5 and 6
overflowing emotion and nostalgia
the dancing school
diexis aids the sense of personal community
step-together, step-together …
use of repeition - linked to the past conformity of women
she appreciates the past but wouldn’t want to go back
nostalgia only makes me old.
end stop emphatic of her attempt to move on
was killed in TV lassitude and it was me that turned it on
A03 Tv acts as a wider symbol of change
self criticism - struggling with her grief
there’s never a hanky up my sleeve.
end stop - decisive self critical statement
I miss material hankercheifs
ext metaphor - she misses her mum her childhood and the past
But it isn’t mine. I’ll let it go.
Argument marker - moving on from the past - emotional growth
caesura and end stop - decisive rationalisation - stops her self criticism
this is your material to do with, daughter, what you will.
italics represent the mother’s voice - supports her version of motherhood and societal change
rhyming couplet at the end - decisive
structural comments
tight rhyme scheme represents the tightly ordered society