The Kiss of Death for attraction is ______
Giving a girl a compliment, EVEN IF she smiles afterward and on the surface likes it.
When you compliment her, you’re sending her a subconscious signal ‘I feel like I’m lower value than you, so to make you like me I have to kiss your ass”. It screams to the woman low SMV.
Don’t compliment her, instead you _______
Qualify her. It’s like a compliment but it’s on a personality trait NOT HER LOOKS and where she felt like she had to earn that compliment from you.
This makes her feel unique and different from other women out there and feel chosen, like you chose her.
When to qualify is also very important. It’s going to be after _____
You can’t just qualify her right off the bat, you have to start to notice in the conversation what it is you like about her.
This can happen after maybe 1 to 4 minutes of talking to her that you notice something special and unique about her that’s different than most other girls. It should only be after she’s invested some in the conversation.
What to qualify her on?
- Her energy
- She’s surprisingly intelligent
- Her quirkiness
Anything that’s deeper than her superficial looks.
Example Qualification Line for Intelligent girl
“You know what Sarah, as I’m talking to you I’m realizing something, you’re not just another pretty face here, you’re actually quite intelligent”
Qualify Through Comparison
Frame her as more unique or fun than “ordinary” women.
Praise her Uniqueness
“Most people would’ve just _____, but you actually ____, that’s rare.”
