talk/ speak
TO/ WITH somebody
Who were you talking to/with?
listen
TO
When I’m driving, I like to listen to the radio
apologise
TO somebody (FOR…)
They apologised to me for their mistake
explain
a) something TO somebody
Can you explain this word to me
b) explain (TO somebody) WHAT/HOW/WHY etc.
I explained to them why I was worried
describe
a) describe something TO somebody
He described the test to me
b) describe (TO somebody) WHAT/HOW/WHY etc.
Let me describe to you what I saw
phone/ call/ email/ text
somebody
I called the airline to cancel my flight
BUT
write (a letter) TO somebody
answer
somebody/ something
You didn’t answer my email
BUT
reply TO (an email, a letter etc.)
ask
a) somebody (a question)
If there’s anything you want to know, you can ask me
b) (somebody) ABOUT = to talk/request info on a topic or thing because you’re curious about something. You’re not asking to receive something
I asked her about her trip.
c) (somebody) FOR = you want to obtain something, not just learn about it
I sent an email to the company asking them for more information about the job (= I wanted more info about the job)
Ask him for his new product (= request the product (e.g. a sample).
I asked for a glass of water (= I wanted someone to give me one)
BUT
ask somebody THE WAY/ THE TIME etc.
I asked somebody the way to the station
thank
somebody (for…)
He thanked me for helping him
look/ stare/ glance (=look quickly)/ smile/ have a look/ take a look
AT
Why are you looking at me like that?
laugh
a) AT = Used when you laugh because of something or someone (often because you find it funny, silly, or ridiculous).
Everybody will laugh at me (= “at” introduces the thing or person that causes the laughter. You’re reacting to something/someone directly)
b) ABOUT = used when you’re talking or thinking about something amusing afterwards.
It’s more about discussing or remembering something funny rather than reacting to it.
We laughed about what happened yesterday. (= You’re not laughing at someone, but rather sharing laughter about an event or topic)
aim/ point (something)
AT
Don’t point that knife at me
shoot/ fire (a gun)
AT
We saw someone shooting at birds
shout
a) AT somebody (when you’re angry or aggressive)
He got very angry abd started shouting at me
b) TO somebody (so that they can hear you)
He shouted to me from the other side of the street
throw
a) something AT somebody/something (to hit them)
Somebody threw an egg at a politician
b) something TO somebody (for somebody to catch)
Lisa threw the keys to me from the window
talk/ read/ know
ABOUT
We talked about a lot of thing at the meeting
have a discussion
ABOUT something
We had a discussion about what we should do
BUT
discuss something
We discussed what we should do
do something/nothing
ABOUT something = do something/nothing to improve a situation
If you’re worried about the problem, you should do something about it
apply (job, position etc.)
(TO a company etc.) FOR a job etc.
Why don’t you apply to that company for a job?
wait
FOR somebody/ something to happen
Don’t wait for me
I’m waiting for the rain to stop
search
a person/ a bag/ a place etc. FOR
I’ve searched the house for my keys
leave (a place)
FOR another place
I haven’t seen her since she left (home) for work
take care
OF = look after, keep safe, take responsibility for
I can take care of myself
I’ll take care of the travel arrengements
care
a) FOR somebody = take care of them, keep them safe
Alan is old. He needs somebody to care for him
b) don’t care FOR something = I don’t like it
I don’t care for hot weather (= I don’t like hot weather)
c) ABOUT = think that somebody/something is important
He doesn’t care about other people
BUT
care WHAT/ WHERE/ HOW ETC. = no preposition
I don’t care what you do. You can do what you like.