I-self
the knower, experiencer, present tense, story teller, consciousness. Perceives what is going on and puts them together to create a narrative. (Ego)
Me-self
The known, experienced, past-tense, story. Cumulation of the self. (Self concept).
What is self-concept
Our knowledge about who we are, including traits, social identities, and experiences.
What is self concept made up of
Self concept is made up of self schemas: beliefs about oneself that guide processing of self-relevant information. Set of memories, beliefs, and generalization about an attribute that is central to one’s self concept.
What would the schema for compassion include
memories of specific events, and general beliefs about how one typically acts in situations.
What do people have self schemas for
dimensions important to them, on which they are extreme, and on which they strongly believe the opposite is not true.
How do self schemas help
Self-defining attributes are processed more quickly, and lots more behaviour reflective of that attribute can be remembered.
Example of the self being extremely important
Proven by the cocktail part effect, where our focus zooms to someone saying our name, even in a loud room.
Working self concept
Portion of the self schema that is currently activated and influences our behaviour. Informed by our social situation, info we are primed with, and motivation to think or act in a particular way.
Example of working self concept
At school, our student concept comes up. Those aspects are more likely to influence thoughts and behaviour.
Solo status
A sense that one is unique from those in the current environment. Tend to refer to characteristics that make us different.
Symbolic interactionism
The perspective that people use their understanding of how others view them as the primary basis for knowing and evaluating themselves.
Looking glass self
The idea that others reflect back to us (much like a looking glass, or mirror) who we are by how they behave toward us.
Appraisals
observing how other people see you, and incorporating that into your appraisal of yourself.
Why is appraisals good
Helps judge ourselves on if our actions are good or bad. We are more likely to change ourselves based on the appraisals of people we are close to or admire.
Generalized order
mental order of most people in society we use to consider how the collective views us.
Association method
Unconscious self probed by saying the first word that comes to mind. Reveals fixations.
Introspection
The process of looking inward to examine one’s own feelings, thoughts, and motives.
Nisbett and wilson on introspection
Suggested that we cannot look inwards and know why we do something or how we reached a certain decision.
Where are we getting the ideas we introspect
The reasons that we often provide for thoughts and feelings may be wrong and based on common naive theories related to these experiences. Like the narrative we tell ourselves instead of what is actually true.
Example of poor introspection
Asked people to pick out of 4 socks, most people picked the last one. Told themselves it was because it was a better sock when in reality it was that it was the last sock, but made a fake narrative.
Vazire on who knows us best
it depends on the extent to which the traits that are being judged are observable, and evaluative.
What traits are best judged by who
Traits like being outgoing are more accurately judged by others. But like being anxious, we are better at judging.
Reflected appraisals
what we think other people think about us. Usually very different from actual appraisals people have of us.