Chapter 9 Flashcards

(29 cards)

1
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A healthy sex life is consistently identified as important for what?

A

lasting love

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2
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Sexual satisfaction is intertwined with what?

For newlyweds, what type of association?

For long-term couples, sexual satisfaction predicts what?

A

relationship satisfaction

bidirectional association

relationship satisfaction but not vice versa

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3
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On average, what happens to sexual desire as partnerships progress? Why? When does sexual frequency/satisfaction peak?

A

sexual desire declines as partnerships progress

natural part of aging, particularly for men

frequency/satisfaction peaks in the first year of a partnership and decline thereafter

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4
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What percentage of Canadian women report low sexual desire in the past 6 months?

A

40%

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5
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Why is sexual desire difficult to study?

A

highly influenced by social desirability

the case of sexual frequency and happiness

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6
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As intimate partnerships have become less centered on childbearing people tend to value what?

A

people value virginity less in potential partners

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7
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What is sexual frequency linked with?

A

greater sexual and relationship satisfaction

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8
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Are specific sex acts consistently linked to sexual satisfaction?

A

NO!

exception: mutual masturbation and oral sex

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9
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What is key in sexual satisfaction?

A

variety in one’s sexual repertoire

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10
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Men are more satisfied when who reaches orgasm

A

their partner

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11
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What act of intimacy after sex is linked with higher sexual satisfaction for men and women?

A

time spent cuddling/bonding

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Couples with good communication report higher sexual satisfaction and frequency. Why?

A

communication allows us to experience intimacy with a partner (or not)

those couples with better communication are able to take advantage of opportunities for sex because they feel close to their partner already

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13
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What is non-monogamy?

A

umbrella term for relationships where partners are not sexually or romantically exclusive to each other, with the full knowledge and consent of everyone involved

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14
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What is consensual non-monogamy?

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umbrella term capturing all the ways partners experience sexual/emotional intimacy with multiple people

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15
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What are 3 different types of consensual non-monogamy?

A

swinging

open relationship

polyamory

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16
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What is swinging?

A

committed couples temporarily involving other people in their sex lives

17
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What is open relationship?

A

explicit agreement among committed partners to pursue relationships with other people

18
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What is polyamory?

A

ongoing consensual emotional and sexual relationship with multiple people

19
Q

What is (if anything) different about sexual satisfaction in non monogamy vs monogamous couples?

A

sexual satisfaction may be slightly higher than monogamous couples

20
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What is (if anything) different about relationship satisfaction in non monogamy vs monogamous couples?

A

relationship satisfaction does not differ compared to monogamous couples

21
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How is satisfaction like in polyamorous relationships?

A

satisfaction with partners in polyamorous relationships is mostly independent

22
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People have sex for a variety of reasons. How many reasons have been identified in past research?

23
Q

Sex strengthens partnerships biologically how?

A

biologically through vasopressin and oxytocin

boosts relationship satisfaction for 3 days following sex (sex afterglow)

motivation for sex is KEY: approach versus avoidance motives

24
Q

What does sex do to neuroticism and anxious attachment?

A

offset (vulnerabilities)

25
What does sex do for health?
improve
26
What are 3 obstacles to sex?
time housework porn
27
How might porn be an obstacle to relationships?
unrealistic expectations applied to partner reduce commitment (perceive more alternatives) impact beliefs about what is acceptable (sexual violence, extradyadic sex)
28
Why might porn NOT be the end of the world?
intermittent use (less than monthly) NOT linked to sexual satisfaction negative for men, but women may benefit (their use is much less than men's) matched solitary usage among partners (never or otherwise) linked with higher sexual satisfaction, as is joint usage
29
What did daily diary research across 27 days find when discussing how to decline sex?
rejecting sexual advances with love and reassurance was linked with greater relationship satisfaction for both partners