Relationship vs sexual satisfaction
1) each partner’s overall evaluation of the relationship as a while
2) each partner’s evaluation of the sexual aspect of the relationship in particular
Daily diaries studies show that, compared to partners with a secure attachment style, relationships satisfaction for those with an anxious attachment style:
is MORE affected
relationship satisfaction in avoidant partners is less affected, by the quality of their sexual interactions on a given day
Sexual and relationship satisfaction is stronger for men than women. They affect each other in
both directions
What is involuntary celibacy?
going without sex for period of time despite the presence of sexual desire (rarely satisfied with their relationships, they might stay for other reasons)
The safer and more reliable the relationship grows, the
less sexy it becomes.
sexual desire tends to be aroused most by novelty and risk
Relationship satisfaction peaks at how much sex per week?
weekly
Responsiveness as an engine of effective communication and driving force of satisfaction of sex, 2 reasons
1) responsive partners made each other feel special and unique
2) responsive partners were perceived to be more attractive to people outside the relationship
READ: evidence that having sex makes you healthier
kissing lowers cholesterol
physical intimacy reduces physical symptoms
sex affects hormone levels (prolactin, hormone released after orgasm, decreases arousal, was 400% higher in couples who had intercourse, compared to those who masturbated alone)
sex burns calories
Implication of porn in genders
negative affects in men partnered with women
women’s use has consistently been linked to better relationships (better sexual satisfaction for both)